Because here is the absolute truth: we teach others how to treat us by the treatment were willing to accept. We are both now 12 years older, both had a child, both are single again. 2. Have them call you. I said it appears you are still available to her. You have 1. already sent him a long message which he ignored and 2. another message on Facebook. which was why he suddenly felt the need to reach out..In fact he sought me out twice that day which broke down all my screwed up defensesand I gave in and texted him on Sunday casually ofcourse but still *Bangingmyheadagainstthewall* Why? I also told him probably he thought I was one of the girls who said how high when he said Jump. I didnt look for him, nada. I wasnt really experienced with men and I didnt have any prior knowledge on the whole dating-men etiquette so I know I was the one who ruined it. The only time i find i do this is when Im not in love with the man. What do you guys think? I left him a good voicemail, I was angry hurt and upset, actually in tears, as it was my birthday, my best friend died of a heart attack 2 months before, I cant find work and I have no family hereSo he did not call back. I reject good guys and then this is how I get treated. I feel so stupid sometimes cause deep down I want to hear from him. I agree with ms comment that it sad that a men would play disappearing act. It just got me as it seemed he blew so hot and then that was it. He got really aggressive and said i made my choice and he would not reason. He has a habit of responding late or worst not responding at all to my messages and he has his reasons. Something came up.". No riddles. Im going through the same situation as you, trying to get over someone whos playing hard to get or who doesnt care about me (I dont know the answer). Fast forward to around 6 months later, I felt that the relationship was not moving forward so of course I naturally asked him what are things that would help him get to the next level (not necessarily putting a title on it but at least stepping up our communication). After a while I met him and he seemed just as nice as he did online. He felt lost about his job, life, apartment, and his mother who was dying and wanted time to sort stuff out. Then he said hed like to see me later that evening. Men have no problem spending time/money on what they really want Im not doing that just because I dont want to die alone, when I like someone I really want to be worthy to be with her, but I know that at some point Ill run out of my reserve, and it might be really painful to discover she doesnt like me anymore when that happens. The real trick is: remain PLUGGED INTO YOUR OWN LIFE at all times. 4 days after this happened I sent him a note on the website saying that I was writing him mostly for myself because I didnt want things to end badly, because he had brought so much happiness to my life after i had been so sad for so long and I would be grateful for that. Im widowed, no children, no big baggage, attractive in my early 50s. So I pressed him for an answer:do you want to to end it? He says You too. Weirdly, Hes NEVER ignored one of my messages, But doesnt exactly stay long enough to converse. You can reach out to someone with a professional perspective on what youre dealing with! This text message will show him that you have your boundaries and youre not willing to cross them because of him. That way you can see if there is chemistry or not. I fully empathise with your experiences. What to text him when he disappears has also to do with your ability to text while being stressed and anxious. If we skip this one step, and pretend in our society that its ok for people to just leave when they please, without requiring responsibility and reciprocity that are BASIC, HUMANE qualities.. that its cool for people to do whatever they please we only end up demoting ourselves to disposable beings. I see that men take a long time to mature. I told him tied up right now. It does suck and it will for a while but like this post said keep busy and time will heal. I know him! Even accused him of having someone else, but he tried to explain that hes just busy about his work. Told him id contact him in the morning and I txte him a few times and no reply . I happen to be in his town (have close family there), hes asking to see me, several times, but I couldnt, had no free time. I forced a confrontation. Thanks, its helpful to hear a guys point of view on this. Very early into our relationship he told me how much he cares for me and that he even loves me.. Ive never been in a serious relationship before so I was hesitant on what I felt but said I cared for him too to spare his feelings. If he still doesnt answer then youve got to let it go. You go to the bars its all GUYS and like 2 girls you get hit on constantly by Men. He did mention to me that it bothers him at his age (of 43) he hasnt reached the milstones all his friends has reached or what i have reached. I dont know what to do. unfortunately theres a lot of men out there who cant man up. Of course, and I am sure I will. Then I met this other guy at class in 2014. get the scissors and cut him out of the picture you are trying to make for him. I made the discussion about me and how he made me feel. Then come back, then two weeks, on and on. Theres this guy, we are best of friends. If you've been texting with a dude for say two weeks and then you stop, it's going to take him at least five or six days until he registers the change unless he's very into you. I was busy one weekendfinally, he surprised me and told me that he is here and I went to see himkinda insecure tjah maybe he wont like me in person and I saw him and really liked him. This went on for a month. If you feel the need to check up on him, go look at funny YouTube videos or call a friend. Yes MH, we dont mind a real MAN saying: I dont think we should see each other because_____________ hell, I would respect a man doing that! If you dont hear from him in a week, you can definitely let him goAnd dont initiate contact with him at all. We are looking forward toI think it would be a great fun experience and you would enjoy it. Spent a couple months having some great times. I was freaking out so he gave me a small card before going to the washroom that said please relax. Wont text me back. I know I sound crazy for even bothering to put effort into trying to figure this out, but I love him. Ive met one person in particular that Im really into, so well see what happens! I figured things have been hot and heavy he just needs his space. Especially since online dating. Own up to it like a man what the hell does that mean? Have you heard from him since? People simply meet, like each other, and become lovers. I told him in front of other people that I dont want to see him never again. Just as I started to allow myself to fall for him, he began to lessen up on the contact and would take hours (if not days) to respond to a text message. Basically the night I was supposed to leave he told me via text that he suddenly couldnt handle the commitment then blocked me off of every social media outlet, including Facebook and we werent even friends! We would talk for a while and it would go a week or so, and we would talk again. He always texted me back. Throughout the three dates he would give me all the validation a girl could want that he liked me. Considering this is my second attempt to reach you, Ill take this as it is. MH I think the issue addressed in the article is that these men ghost. He is choosing to not respond to you. It was like we had known each other for years instead of just a month. I deactivated my own Facebook account for a while. As painful as that realization is, it may give you closure to realize his behavior is not your fault and not because of something you did. He booked tickets for an event 6 months ahead of time. After seventeen days I was stressed at his sudden ghosting, I missed him and the situation was nagging me, haunting me, and so I decided to go to his home fifty minutes drive away and confront him. I get there and he hardly talks to me and is really tired and says he has to to work the next day to pick up some hours. Time differences dont matter for them. I refuse to text him again though because of my pride which just leaves me sitting around, wondering if he'll come back or if I lost him forever. I dont know how I will get over this! 8 1/2 months later Im left crying consistently, I cant aleep, my appetite has fallen, I feel as if Im crumbling. I do know that you should stop giving this guy the time of day. Your ex tells you directly he's missing you. He approached me and pursued me quite ardently and we embarked on a long distance romance (we live in different states), with plans to be together a half a month (2 weeks) every month, as he wanted to base his business in my state & would be here half the time He declared his love, and his life time commitments and we had a mini trip planned, and then his mom died, 2 investors wanted nearly a million dollars returned, and he had to move to another state, 3,000 miles away, etc., and he just went more & more within himself And withdrew, He cancelled our trip, and he now says he wont be basing here in my state, and needs the proverbial space. I did not answer nor respond last night when he tried contacting me. What do I do? Maybe you should wonder why? If you cant meet them, feel them, cuddle them etc.. Whats the point? i am currently suffering the vanishing act this guy has been pulling on me for a while now. A day later i found him on tinder and realized he had swiped right on me too, and we both laughed about it and decided to meet up. We both used each other as ego boosters actually but I really wanted more then he got himself a girl friend, so we stayed just as friends. Hes that tall and dark and charismatic and funny and sweet guy that everyone loved. ! BUT the giant problem with that statement is that it assumes you dont deserve someone who REALLY IS into you! Look, dont feel so bad. My next point will explain this further. He is well educated and fun to be. Hey, there is a new cafe shop open in town that Ive been meaning to try. Its been 4 days since then and he still has not contacted me. I dont delete their numbers. 3. Val As I once heard someone say your picker is broken. Theres nothing wrong with you. but what can I say. Its not like we went out for one date or even two. Its probably for ex sex. And Ive had a couple that ghosted altogether. I went numb when he said yes. I sent him a long message basically saying that I feel being accused of not caring is unfair when he is distant from me and told him what exactly I was feeling and he didnt reply at all. 2: he is . We chatted for 30 mins or so. Most of what you write about is people who are just barely starting to date and even wondering if theyll ever get to be in an actual real relationship with who theyre dating, or be called his girlfriend, and then wonder why he pulls away at that juncture But what about those of us in well established love relationships, where you ARE his girlfriend, where he HAS declared his love for you, where he HAS said he wants to marry you and spend his life loving you, and THEN he pulls the distancing act??? He always had a bad temper, weve fought too many times but we never ended things. He texts me the next day good morning and brings up hes sorry but he thought it was still weird some of the things I said. This so hit close to home!! Im rather confused and very much hurt. then hell know! The last day of school (on december) we went to the mall and we ended up hooking in the car (I know, ridiculous ha). The very next day, he sent me a text that he really wanted to see me and how different I was to other girls he had met. Then he asked when we will see and I answered Not today and I finished texting me back Okei, you tell me when. Then he turned it around on me and said I was pushing the gas pedal down too hard and he wasnt sure what he wanted and this started out to be fun but he got a sense it was headed somewhere more serious (remember week 1 he said he was falling for me and he said it was headed somewhere serious not me.) This left me so confused because at a point like this I would want my other half present. "If it's because ghosting you was easier, say goodbye to the disrespectful. Not only will this make you look clingy and accusatory of his actions, but also create a disbalance of power in his favor and assign you the role of the chaser. But then the weekend arrived and he dissapeared during three day of four I guess he ghosted. I bring up that he was shady over the weekend and I just figured he would want to hang out more since we talk so much during the week. He was through two marriages earlier which left him feeling damaged. Now there is nothing and Im devistated. I found plenty of good gay men, who have been my rock. 1. Giving him compliments will not only boost his fiery ego and fill his . Please help me get through these last few days, and give tips on how to deal with outcomes. It is true that we have been conditioned into a non-reality world of romance, but emotions are there for a reason. He talked about having kids and getting married. Should I have initiated sex? I am guessing me spending the night was too real for him and he got freaked out or after seeing the real me he just changed his feelings and didnt know how to tell me. @_@ Im not obsessed with the guy, its more of an obsession with wanting to know why. I was so glad I went to confront him and get closure, even though he could not come clean and just end it properly. And we didnt talk at all for the 6th month until the last week where I contacted him. These dysfunctional jerks are going to prematurely age us if we let them! Especially the one I feel the most for. Blows hot one minute, cold the next. He was leaving the next day, so I met up with him and asked him if he wanted to spend time with his friend instead but he said no and we went for brunch and then a walk and had a good time. . He brought me flowers, made reservations at s very fancy restaurant and took me Hes a middle aged man and Im almost 60. He's vague about everything. No on and off. He told me he was starting to like me and didnt want to take things too fast (aka have sex too soon) which was refreshing to hear from a man for once. And now I have someone constantly poking me on Facebook and sending me stickers who I consider a new friend, maybe more. No urgency to meet If youre actively dating in todays day and age, chances are youve had the experience of a guy youve been talking to going radio silent only for him to pop back up and begin texting you a few weeks later. No amount of excuses or saying that the other girl didnt have this or that will replace the fact that you took the easy way out. Im newly divorced and rather new to dating so all of these games are new to me, Alas, I will not make that mistake again. Bringing up the issue of his ex cheating (very briefly but when little else emotional connection has been established its a little odd). 5. I sent him a message that evening to say I hoped he had not had too bad a day considering the lack of sleep and inevitable hangover, that I was sorry I had got so drunk but that I thought he was lovely and Im glad we met up. I met a guy on my holiday abroad and although it was supposed to be just a little fun we fell in love. Thanks. like you, i too, need closure from the guy. As much as he seemed great, that didnt matter. so now what? Expose him and let him realize that you know whats going on. He isnt the guy for you. This whole more fish in the sea approach has dehumanised relationships. He always says Im just having my own little problems so I believed him but when I text him , sometimes he doesnt even respond or he would just respond late.. At first I was thinking he was getting depressed about something but he wouldnt tell me whats wrong. I dont mind being removed in whatever social network account he has. We drunk kissed at staff do but straight away we both said to forget it. Throw it away, set it on fire, mail it back to him if you really want to make sure he gets it, but dont contact him. You now know this guys character. We shall wait together, ok? Hola seorita (it means hello miss)Im doing a paper right now we can text wassup? So I was chatting with this guy on fb for a few weeks. He's in the habit of texting you in the early hours, such as before bedtime or when he's partying with his friends. (leaving for 1 month vacation out of country) I never hear anything from him again. Anyways! Then he asked me to join him for thanksgiving dinner with his family. And the next day after that he texted me, he didnt say that it was over, but instead he said that I deserved someone better. Best of luck to you. So he went camping with his kids and I heard nothing. According to those articles he will be back silent treatment can take up to several months. The next day he sent me a text to say sorry for the late reply was really wasted and took me a day to recover.. Ive hooked up with what I thought was a sweet, considerate young man by getting to know him though texting. I figured he was just tired. Well, my little ghost and I were perfect the first 3 months of our 6 month relationship. Its been 3 months, 24/7. Things had been fast and intense between us. I never text him too. No big deal. I recently met a guy online, and he was really chatting me up. We still had a good evening we had takeaway watched a movie and even became intimate . ( I dont smoke or drink by choice) I do have a lot of friends who do and I told him that as long as drinking and smoking is not a habit and a life style. And then now hes the one giving me the cold shoulder?! The guy Ive been seeing told me he could see us being happily married and that he hoped that our kids had my eye colour. Immediately, I ate my words apologised, called no answer. Right now he is trying to mend his heart (erhem ego) by going back to the ex that crushed his ego. Im not ready to label him a jerk and walk away. I cant believe I let someone control me like that and then ghost on me. Not the end of the world but rejection hurts. Said he was a screw up and I deserved a better man because I deserved to be happy. I am in the middle of getting ready for my brothers wedding this weekend and there has been a lot of stress that i was chatting to him about. I pretty much pushed to meet although the agreement to go for a drink was mutual. So I pull out before its too late, and usually they dont pass my little test, my current girlfriend did and were together for 4 years now. I now know based on his actions and looking back, he is emotionally unavailable. Dont contact him. I even learned some tough lessons. But people continue to respond in the very way they dont like to be responded to. But I brushed it off maybe hes busy or something. Its been a month now since I wrote my goodbye email to him, no reply. It hurts but I felt a feeling over come me and I just instantly felt better. 8. I pretty much begged him to give me closure but he didnt have the balls to do it, so i did. BUT it still is a really sucky feeling. Concentrating on other more important thi gs in life but not shutting .y self off from experiences.. Thing is he gave me his hard drive to put movies on and I still have it. We were in relationship for 5-6 months and I started seeing decline in interest after 2-3 months. I called him the following week and no answer. Please stay out of my life. Presents for his lil nephews cas they always talked to me over the phone and asked for kids stuff and hed always joke about how I never get them I have followed their advice for years and its always been spot on). I havent done anything to him I dont understand how he could just stop talking to me. So I finally had to just come out and ask what the deal was. Fortunately for him he looks like he has already found someone else in 3 weeks!!! Long story short (to the best of my ability), I met a guy online. Since there is no reaction from us they think it is ok and they just get away with it and repeat this hideous behaviour again! Im so glad I found this post! Sometimes it means he is really busy with work or life and you're not highest priority. Hours go by, days, and I realize, I need this space for me. I have seen myself getting most affected whenever I was in a relationship. However he has left room for someone who will value and love me like we all deserve to be, moreover we all deserve an explanation when people do not reciprocate those feelings that have been invested from the other party, as it takes a bigger more responsible people to do that and some people just do not have that capability. I met this boy at party, he seemed very interested and asked for my number a lot of times during the party at the end I decided to give him my phone number because he was so nice and thought he deverved an oportunity. If he doesnt hear from you adequately and decisively he will continue to walk away. In the text, let him know your standards and that you aren't willing to let go of them simply because you like him. But since he left you abruptly, its obvious that hes still too immature for you. Honestly I would be fine if HE hadnt been the one to get emotional first. And thats why hes not the one made for you. If he cant give you what you want then maybe its best if he walks away and never comes back. its been two months and we still having bad communication.. Well I am pregnant and so it makes it much more harder to just accept a disappearance! I feel like its other things that I cannot control in his life and maybe the distance is too much for him or he could just be being a jerk, I dont know. Hes being possessive and he knows that. I was quite upset. They live in the same town. Your results are completely up to you, your level of awareness, expertise, the action you take and the service you provide to others. Then I assumed its over, but still, I needed a closure. Just grey ticks on whatsapp. I called and texted and he never responded. He had begun to tell me he was falling in love with me, and spoke of a future (kids, white picket fence, the whole ordeal). It sounds so similar to mine! So if he acted like he was interested and then disappears, it might be because he's realized that the two of you don't belong together. Im Youd probably want to get it out of your hands ASAP, right?! Im contemplating whether to just not say anything and expect another message from him in weeks to a months time, Or to open my mouth and state my opinion (in a nice way). His text messages will become short and less frequent until he finally stops texting at all. Next day I texted him I was pretty insecure and he knew that but he was he one having nightmares at night that id leave him. But theres the idea that he thinks I will wait. I refuse to text him. When I came back to my home country, we kept talking for almost 3 months (everyday). We have a nice time at least in my opinion but he didnt try to kiss me or cuddle even though we were in his bedroom sitting really close on his bed. Dont let him walk over you, no matter what, as no guy should ever treat you that way. he lets me know as soon as he has landed in another country for work, how the job is going, sends me pictures and updates all the time, but the last couple of days have been different from his side not mine I dont mind if hes changed his mind or he has met somebody else, but I think he should at least have the courage to tell me and not just blank me do you think I should confront it and just ask him why? This is so messed up, his I love u is sooo cheap to me. I guess he texted me on impulse and then regretted it and is not man enough to face it hmm. I fell in love and planned a trip back there this summer. Im still so confused and hurt. and see what happens! In the end, I know its gonna be hard at first. He says he will text me. But all in all, I hope you find someone amazing one day, you deserve it. Should I just take the hint? To add insult to injury, hes completely re-updated his tinder profile and has been very active so I know hes on his phone. I was devastated! I feel as if I no longer mean anything to him and this is very hurtful and heartbreaking. Weve met each others kids and friends. In no way is that meant to blame you , its just a way to avoid such a situation happening again. However, that doesnt excuse his sudden behavior of disappearance. He was so full on, saying I make him happy etc etc than boom nothing. I thought he was going to cancel but he didnt. I have spent this time dealing with my neediness issues.Thanks. He comes back home text me and we message a lot (we had just shared a long kiss nothing more). It IS lonely at the top. . We got along so well I have to thank you, you are so brave to share this kind of situation. Its still too early in your case to say for sure whether he is fading outI would say give it a weekSometimes guys need time to reevaluate and just take some time for themselves. I went crazy and deleted my Instagram so I dont have to see the posts he had tagged me in and all the mushy stuff etc. one of her favorite topics is preventative medicine, along with medical horror stories about friends and even offers me some advice on vitamins etc. He lost a smart, funny, kind and loving woman. but I havent heard a peep from him in 2 weeks, whereas, we used to communicate 15 times per day. I could see he has read messages but didnt bothered to respond. Funny . Also, the guy Im dating is not my boyfriend yet, which is another reason for me not to be all pissy about him not talking to me while he was caring for his sick mother. I cant think its as simple as hes just not that into you That fits the barely dating folks, not deep abiding declarative love relationships that the man started and grew with the woman So whats the answer for those of us in THAT situation??? Like with the guy that I described below Weve known each other for years, we were having sex for a year, he even proposed and moreover we wont avoid some contact, because we work in the same field. To this day I still dont know what happened, but although he chose to dispose of what we had, I am just greatful that I a man not with a guy that doesnt value me, because life is too short to be wasted on irrelevant people. Im just left feeling so confused. But he was so persistent. Or can I say, boys. Fast forward to Christmas- he tells me how much he cares and loves me but within the next week, his calls become less often however he says its his schedule and hes sleeping while Im awake and when Im sleep hes up driving. She had been dating a guy, and things were going great, when she asked where he saw the future going. if he stay away, it his loss. He knew he could say good by at any time in in the past 6 mo the that we were heading this long distance thing. Maybe he thought he was interested & got scared, maybe he thought he was ready for a relationship & isnt, maybe he changed his mind, maybe hes just an asshole. Me Dates ARE personal, and when a man disappears, its essentially saying, thanks but no thanks. Ick. I called him like 3 or 4 times everyday for about 5 days, he didnt answer. I tell him I would like to be friends but he needs to be real about it and not just say it and drop off. Although I really liked this guy my integrity and love for myself always comes first. Do you rant to him about his immature behavior or do you simply give him some more time and wait for him to come back to you? So no contact after a breakup does two things 1) helps us get over the person IF indeed the relationship is over and 2) also makes the person miss you by your absence, Shannon, so needed to hear what you had to say. A great burden was lifted from me and I felt free again. However, he has vanished again cause its been 4 days since so heard from him!!! Men generally arent eager to bet THE REST OF THEIR LIVES on a shallow relationship. Our vision is to become a supportive community where youll feel that theres someone out there who gets you, supports you in creating and keeping strong bonds between your families and friends. I just have to keep telling myself that he only keeps coming back to me because he thinks I will take him back and to not to be his back pocket girl. What changed? Anyway, because of that, whenever I got close to a woman my terrible self esteem would sabotage me and id play games. In return, they leave us brokenhearted and sobbing in pain. 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